anyway
being in a happy and loving relationship doesn’t cure mental illness
which is why for the sake of me and the love of my life, i have to make the effort to take care of me and creating the support systems i need to get to ok. and he might be part of that support system, but he’s not my sole support system,
which is why the relationship continues to be healthy, even when i’m not at my best
Mature relationships are where it’s at. That trust filled lifelong “I’m mad but I want you to know I love you” kind of security. That not having to worry about them posting your business and issues on social media, and instead bringing your issues directly to the table kind of relationship. That never going to sleep mad promise. Good shit
I cherish the intimacy of being with myself. Loving myself and how I move when no one else is around. I feel myself being infatuated with the woman I am at this exact point in my life. How resilient she is! How down to earth she is. Still unsure what she wants out of life… however, extremely aware of what she doesn’t need in her life!
I wish more parents would instill individuality in their children. That’s one thing I’ve admired about Will and Jada with giving their kids the freedom to be exactly who they are instead of forcing them to assimilate and be exactly like their peers. I love seeing children with strong distinctive personalities: they know what they do and don’t like and aren’t afraid to voice it. This saves children from living double lives, lying, killing themselves to look like the next person, etc when they are adults. They won’t be switching up when they are in different environments or are around other people. There will be no act. Please encourage your kids and loved ones to be themselves.
